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We shared a limo: in Russia, the number of agreements on the distribution of property in case of divorce is growing
Who gets apartments and cars, pedigreed cows and expensive biker paraphernalia if the former spouses cannot agree? Such disputes sometimes drag on for years and even affect the heirs. In 2026, the number of certified agreements on the distribution of jointly acquired property increased by almost 10%, the notary said. Formalizing agreements helps protect the rights of both parties and avoid future litigation. How to protect your interests and not bring the case to court — in the material of Izvestia.
Who made the agreements
In the first nine months of 2026, Russians notarized almost 20,000 agreements on the division of property acquired in marriage, the Federal Notary Chamber (FNP) told Izvestia. This is 8% more than in the same period last year. In a number of regions, such documents have become much more frequent. For example, in Chechnya, the growth was 137%, in Karelia — 58%, in the DPR — 54%, and in the Kaliningrad region — 34%.
"A notarial agreement allows former spouses to resolve property issues without trial, avoid unpleasant surprises and disputes in the future," the notary noted. — Most often this year, residents of Moscow, St. Petersburg, the Moscow Region, the Krasnodar Territory and the Sverdlovsk Region applied for registration of agreements. The top 10 regions also include the Rostov and Chelyabinsk regions, the Krasnoyarsk Territory, Bashkiria and Tatarstan."
Many people think that the property belongs to the person it is registered to, especially if the person himself bought the apartment and paid the mortgage. But according to the law, everything that the spouses acquired in marriage is considered common, regardless of who contributed the money and whose name is indicated in the documents. After the divorce, each of the ex-partners can still claim their share. The exception is when people sign a prenuptial agreement that establishes a different ownership regime.
Usually, during a divorce, apartments, cars and other assets are divided verbally. This approach can lead to big problems, from the inability to sell the house later to the creditors of the former spouse appearing on the doorstep. The FNP noted that some mistakenly believe that it is enough to wait three years and the issue will be resolved by itself, because no one will be able to make claims.
"However, the limitation period is not considered from the date of the dissolution of the marriage, but from the moment when a person found out that his rights had been violated," they recalled. "Therefore, former spouses are not immune from litigation even decades after their divorce."
For example, a woman tried to sell an apartment a few years after the divorce. The notary checked the information about her marital status through an electronic request to the registry office and saw that the owner was married and it was during the marriage that she acquired the property.
"The search for an ex—spouse turned into a real quest - he moved and changed his phone number," the notary chamber shared its practice. — But even when the man got in touch, it was not immediately possible to agree and arrange everything properly. However, if it turns out to sell such an "undivided" apartment by concluding a contract in simple written form, later the deprived party has the right to demand its half of the proceeds. Or the deal can be challenged in court."
Even if the former spouse does not claim anything in words, over time he or she may change his mind and demand his part. This happens, for example, when life circumstances change: a person remarries, a business requires investment, or health problems occur.
What Russians share
When one of the divorced partners passes away, his heirs — children, a new spouse or parents - can claim the property, the FNP recalled.
"A real case: a married woman bought an apartment and registered it for herself. Her husband did the same. After the divorce, the couple decided not to change anything, since the property was registered to each of them. However, after the death of the man, the shares in both apartments became part of the inheritance. As a result, the woman had to conclude a barter agreement with the heirs and pay the difference in cost, since her housing turned out to be cheaper," the experts said.
Problems also arise for those who postpone the execution of agreements, believing that they will have time to do it later. If the spouse who got the apartment dies, the second one will no longer be able to just take his share. If the heirs do not want to negotiate peacefully, the issue will have to be resolved through the courts.
"Sometimes such situations turn into an unexpected "neighborhood." The woman verbally agreed with her husband that the apartment would remain for her, and the car for him," the notaries said. — Everything went on as usual, until the man suddenly died. His elderly mother came into the inheritance, who refused to transfer her half of the apartment to her former daughter-in-law. She quarreled with her relatives, so she bequeathed all her property to a non-profit organization."
A timely agreement helps to avoid many problems. It can include everything that is acquired in marriage: money, shares in the authorized capital of an LLC, shares, antiques, jewelry, equipment and machinery.
"Sometimes quite unusual things are shared," the FNP noted. — So, one of the notaries was approached by former spouses who, among other things, wanted to share expensive biker paraphernalia. It was custom-made."
In another situation, a herd of purebred cows and calves was divided. For a long time we could not agree on who owns how many animals. They even wanted to bring the whole herd to the notary's office so that the notary would keep an eye on the artiodactyls until people had finished arguing.
"There is a special notarial action when a notary can take custody of documents and movable property of citizens," the FNP emphasized. "But only the ones he has somewhere to keep." The notary had nowhere to place hundreds of cows and bulls. As a result, a compromise was found: the man kept all the livestock, and the woman received monetary compensation."
In another story, one of the applicants tried to cheat. The man came to the consultation and said he wanted to share an apartment with his wife. However, it later turned out that over the years of marriage, he had acquired several dozen land plots and storage facilities, as well as a recreation center. At the same time, he was not going to tell his wife about his assets.
"I wanted the notary to confirm that he has nothing else," the notary chamber added. — Of course, he was refused. In addition, it was explained to him that even if one apartment was included in the agreement, the woman would still be entitled to her share in the rest of the jointly acquired property. The man got upset, left to "think" and did not come back."
How to avoid conflicts during divorce
With the peaceful settlement of property issues, the spouses can independently determine the fate of common assets without bringing the case to lengthy court proceedings, however, such an agreement requires strict compliance with the legislative form, recalled civil lawyer Alla Georgieva.
An agreement on the division of jointly acquired property is legally binding only if it is certified by a notary. It is allowed to issue such a document both before and after the official dissolution of the marriage, while a simple written form without notarization invalidates the agreement.
According to the expert, it is critically important to fix in the document not only the distribution of apartments or cars, but also the specific terms of mutual settlements, including the exact timing and procedure for payment of monetary compensation.
"Mortgage real estate requires special attention, since any internal loan repayment agreements do not change obligations to the bank without the direct consent of the lender," she said.
If it is difficult for the parties to come to an agreement on their own, a professional mediator can help find a compromise before visiting a notary, and the notary himself will stop any legal violations during the execution of the transaction.
— The main advantage of a notarial agreement is that the spouses themselves determine the fate of the jointly acquired property, without referring this issue to the court, — said Alla Georgieva.
The division of property in a divorce often turns into an acute confrontation not out of banal greed, but out of fear of being left with nothing, a sense of injustice, or a desire to avenge the pain caused. As noted by clinical psychologist and CBT therapist Anastasia Helemelya, an attempt to use material assets as a way to punish a former partner is an immature position that only prolongs the crisis.
In addition, during a conflict, spouses often devalue each other's non-financial contribution, forgetting that household management and child rearing are equally equivalent family work.
To minimize losses and preserve psychological health, the expert recommends clearly separating legal issues and emotions, making lists of things that are really important to everyone, and in no case using children as a tool of pressure.
The main rule of successful agreements is to let feelings cool down and not make financial decisions in a state of passion.
"Don't sit down at the negotiating table while emotions are running high,— Anastasia Helemelya emphasized. — If you just found out about cheating or haven't moved away from the scandal, this is not the time to share. Give yourself a couple of days or a week: time doesn't cure everything, but it takes the edge off. Recognize that you both have the right to be angry, but it shouldn't drive the decisions of two adults.
The psychologist reminded that separation is the end of a relationship, but not of life, and how the division of property will take place will largely determine whether it will be possible to maintain peace of mind in the future. After all, you can buy a new TV, but you can't have nerves.
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