Psychoanalyst names qualities of men to build healthy relationships

Director of the Anti-Crisis Psychological Center, psychoanalyst Irina Smolyarchuk named on Wednesday, February 5, three leading qualities in men that girls who want to build healthy relationships should pay attention to.

"The first is a man's ability to take responsibility, the second - the ability to make decisions, the third - a sense of humor," the expert said in a conversation with Radio 1.

At the same time, the psychoanalyst paid special attention to the sense of humor, which is good at reducing tension and forming a dialog field.

"We women tend to dramatize everything: everything is gone, it's the end. And that's when our strong man comes in and translates some stalemate situation into a real joke. This very well reduces the tension, helps to maintain the value of the relationship, "- explained Smolyarchuk.

The specialist emphasized that the seriousness and strictness of a man is not an indicator of his reliability.

"It's the exact opposite, it's the other way around. Under this seriousness may be illiteracy, ignorance, lack of self-confidence, well, or, pardon the expression, psychiatric diagnosis," - concluded the psychoanalyst.

In turn, psychologist Elena Solovyova noted that the couple should not move in earlier than six months of relations, reports 360.ru.

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