The psychologist told me a way to find out about the expectations of her future husband

It can be difficult for a mature woman to find a man, because she has already formed a certain mindset and values, especially for high-status people. To understand the expectations of the chosen one, psychologist, Candidate of Psychological Sciences Alina Koroleva advised to pay attention to what the volume of passion says.

"This concept is called a hidden relationship agreement: an unspoken agreement, based on which partners expect something from the other without saying it out loud. Meanwhile, it is proposed to accept this "something" in a relationship directly or indirectly," Koroleva explained.

But how can you guess what exactly a partner wants if they don't voice it? The psychologist recommended listening carefully to phrases that may sometimes relate to the past relationships of the chosen one. Sometimes they are based on opposition.

"For example, a man says that he is tired of mercantile women and utters the phrase: "You're not like that." So, in fact, he suggests not counting on his finances. Or: "When I'm upset, I yell at my loved ones, but the rest of the time I'm completely sane." That is, he offers to endure his emotional breakdowns," the psychologist explained.

Read more about what prevents women from finding a husband and what advice from a psychologist and a matchmaker can help them in the Izvestia article.

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