The psychologist named the differences between love and codependency

Family psychologist Elena Rusinova told how to distinguish love from codependency.

In an interview with Radio 1 on Tuesday, September 2, she stated that love is a mature feeling available to people who are aware and accept themselves.

In other cases, it is more about codependency, when a partner replaces a parent figure who satisfied children's needs.

She added that the modern generation often calls love attachment to those who meet their basic needs and simple values.

According to Rusinova, it's more of an addiction, and such relationships quickly turn into suffering and are short-lived.

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Earlier in the day, Rusinova explained what prevents modern men and women from creating a strong family. According to her, "people are no longer capable of intimacy, of mutual responsibility. Passive men are raised by strong women, but everyone has their own role in the couple," writes Life.ru .

On September 1, psychologist Maria Dolgikh recommended taking care and respect during a family life crisis. According to her, it is important to discuss problems in a relationship openly: it is better not to avoid conflicts, but to use them as a way to get closer. At the same time, one should express one's feelings without reproaches and insults, writes 360.ru .

In June, psychologist Lyubov Grigorovich told NSN about a way to solve the problem of loneliness. According to her, a person should first start by forming their own space and independence. Self-esteem and active activity will help in this, writes RT.

Also in June, psychologist Stanislav Sambursky told how to distinguish true love from the usual habit of staying together for comfort. So, he suggested taking a simple test: imagine life without your partner, at least for a short time. Sambursky advised to talk openly about your feelings and desires in a relationship. Often, silence only exacerbates the problem, the website notes. kp.ru .

At the same time, analysts of the Teamo relationship search service told Izvestia that online dating in Russia has ceased to be a rarity and has become an effective partner search tool. 10-15 years ago, they were treated with skepticism, but today every fifth novel begins on the Internet.

In March, Lyubov Polyakova, a practical psychologist, named ways to strengthen relationships with a significant other. According to her, shared hobbies and interests help partners strengthen emotional bonds, become a team, and reduce stress levels. The psychologist notes that it can be any activity — from sports and travel to cooking or just relaxing time together, writes Pravda.Ru .

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