The psychologist explained the reasons for Russians' distrust of professional help
Artur Vafin, a political psychologist and associate professor at the Financial University under the Government of the Russian Federation, said that there is still a stigma around mental problems in society: it is difficult for people to openly talk about anxiety, apathy and depression, since for a long time attitudes about the need to "get together" and not complain prevailed.
In conversation with the agency RuNews24.Ru On Thursday, May 28, he noted that because of this, many people have been suffering internal pain for years and do not seek help for fear of appearing weak. He drew attention to the paradox: people are willing to spend large sums on psychics, because they promise quick and "magical" solutions, while the help of a psychologist is less trustworthy, because it is associated with the need to work with reality and experience complex emotions.
The specialist explained that psychics support faith in miracles, while psychologists help turn this hope into real actions. At the same time, he stressed that the attitude of the specialists themselves plays an important role: if the work is carried out coldly or distantly, a person can return to the search for a "quick rescue."
The expert added that the situation can be changed through an open conversation about mental health. In his opinion, contacting a psychologist should be perceived as normal self-care, and not as a sign of weakness. He stressed that the culture of silence disappears where people can openly talk about their experiences and receive support without condemnation.
Earlier in the day, Sergey Lang, a psychologist and author of the Endorphins podcast, talked about a technique that helps to put thoughts in order in five minutes. He advised the technique of "anchoring": you need to remember a joyful event, live it and clench your fists to fix the state. According to him, in a stressful situation, this will help to quickly return to pleasant emotions.
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