Experts spoke about the consequences of male attention deficit for children

The role of mother and father in a child's life directly affects their confidence, emotional stability, and ability to build relationships. Experts told us what consequences a lack of male attention can have and how parents can compensate for its absence. Details can be found in the Izvestia article.

Differences in the influence of mother and father

Elena Kopteva, a psychologist at the Yusupov Hospital, explained that the functions of parents in child development vary significantly. The mother primarily provides love and care, while the father prepares the child for interaction with the outside world and translates the male role model. For girls, the father becomes the first example of a man, which affects their future personal life, and for boys he is important as a guideline for masculinity.

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The consequences of male attention deficit

Vladimir Zyablov, a psychiatrist at Olympus Clinic Lights, PhD, warned that the absence of his father could provoke increased anxiety, the risk of depression and problems with self-esteem. The disappearance of a parent leaves a particularly strong mark in early childhood — before the age of five. Women who have grown up without a father's example are more likely to face distrust of men, and men may have difficulty expressing emotions or aggression.

Despite the risks, the absence of a father does not always lead to disorders. The overall situation in the house, the financial situation and the support of the mother affect the final result. The lack of male attention can be compensated by communicating with others.

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How to help a child in the absence of a father

To work through injuries, Zyablov recommends turning to psychotherapy, in particular to cognitive behavioral methods. It is important to talk honestly with the child about the situation, given his age, and not forbid him to express negative feelings about separation.

The therapist reminds us that the calm state of the woman herself is the best protection for the child. It is necessary to support family rituals and demonstrate positive examples of male behavior to the child through a close environment.