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The psychologist gave advice on maintaining emotional intimacy with the child.

Psychologist Yudanova: it is necessary to discuss his problems with the child
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Family psychologist Yulia Yudanova told how to maintain emotional intimacy and good relationships with a child.

In an interview with Radio 1 on Tuesday, March 10, the expert noted that even adult children still need their parents' attention and time together. She recommended preserving family traditions, such as going to the theater or cinema together, playing board games, drinking tea, and discussing the day. Also, according to her, it is important to tell the child about love, support and willingness to accept him in any situation.

The specialist emphasized the need to maintain tactile contact with children of any age and create a cozy atmosphere at home so that the child would like to return there.

Yudanova also advised discussing their feelings, the consequences of their actions and plans for the future with children more often, being interested in their hobbies and getting to know friends. According to her, the more parents have points of contact with the child, the less desire he has to move away from the family.

In addition, she recommended discussing difficult and unpleasant stories with children that happen to their peers. The expert added that conflicts are inevitable in any family, but it is important that they end with mutual respect, love and respect for each other.

Earlier on March 10, psychologist Valery Gut noted that children who grew up in toxic conditions often cannot recognize sincerity in caring due to protective mechanisms, seeing a threat or manipulation in affection. Restoring trust requires emotional separation and recognition that parents are also people with their own traumas and limitations, he notes. 360.ru .

On March 9, neuropsychologist Svetlana Pulya warned that a ban on children's tears and attempts to quickly silence a child could lead to serious problems in the future. The amygdala of a child actively reacts to stress, while the prefrontal cortex, responsible for self-control, is fully formed only by the age of 25, writes Life.ru . Therefore, it is pointless to demand that he "pull himself together": suppressing emotions increases cortisol levels, impairs memory and weakens social ties, RT clarifies.

On March 3, psychologist Lilia Shuvalova called for attention to child rearing before adolescence. The expert noted that teenagers experience strong emotions and often feel misunderstood, so they can express themselves through protest behavior. At the same time, according to her, a lot depends not only on physiology, but also on the values and attachment patterns formed in childhood.

In February, Natalya Naumova, a child psychologist, told NSN that it was safe for teenagers to spend no more than two hours a day on gadgets. She urged not to give the gadget to a child at least until school age.

In December, Marianna Abravitova warned about the risk of violence with the blurred boundaries of raising teenagers. According to her, in an atmosphere of permissiveness, parents cease to be an authority and begin to be perceived by the child as a service staff, so any prohibitions cause protest. In addition, excessive computer gaming can overexcite the nervous system, narrow the perception of the world and erase the boundaries of what is acceptable. At the same time, the specialist emphasized that she does not advocate targeted state bans, but for the systematic formation of traditional values through culture, films, cartoons and games, since it is in such an environment that a worldview is formed. Pravda.Ru .

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