A psychologist has revealed the stereotypical perception of creative professions on dating platforms

In modern dating culture, a person's profession and hobbies are increasingly becoming criteria for social "scoring", turning into so-called red flags. Larisa Karavaytseva, the chief psychologist of the Twinby service, told Izvestia about this on December 3.

"In the era of dating apps, a partner's occupation is evaluated on a par with age and appearance, and many creative and non-standard professions now raise questions about stability and maturity, rather than admiration," she said.

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People are used to communicating online and have forgotten how to get to know each other in person.

The psychologist explains that our brain uses shortcuts to quickly assess potential risks. When people see "DJ", "comedian", "bartender" or "crypto investor" in the questionnaire, they unwittingly complete the image, associating it with a nocturnal lifestyle, unstable schedule, emotional unavailability or financial risks. This reflects a shift in social priorities: in unstable times, many people are not looking for an inspiration, but for a reliable partner who can provide security and peace in their personal lives.

"At the same time, the expert emphasizes that the real "red flags" are not related to profession, but to personal qualities. The key question becomes maturity: does a person manage their life, has long—term goals, and is capable of deep emotional attachment," Karavaytseva added.

A responsible person can succeed in any field, and it is these characteristics that determine his reliability as a partner. Thus, the profession label serves only as a warning signal, and true compatibility is revealed through shared values and a willingness to build a future together.

On November 20, psychologist Yulia Vinokurova explained why conscious people can't find a mate. She noted that a paradigm shift is taking place in the modern world: the family has ceased to be an obligatory tradition and is becoming a conscious choice, which is associated with profound changes in public consciousness. The expert explained that today relationships are considered not as a social obligation to "get married", but as a union in which two people should become easier.

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