The psychologist named the reasons for jealousy

A psychologist of the highest category, NLP psychotherapist, hypnotherapist, cognitive behavioral therapist Sergey Lunyushin listed the causes of jealousy in a couple.

In an interview with the agency RuNews24.ru On Monday, April 28, a specialist pointed out that one of the main causes of jealousy in men and women is the fear of losing something. Fear can be both real and imaginary. The latter usually has no objective reasons.

The psychologist pointed out that jealousy often generates a fear of uselessness. A woman with such fear is convinced that no one will be needed in the event of a partner's betrayal.

In addition, jealousy may be caused by the fear of losing some benefits from marriage. It can be about status, money, lifestyle, writes 360.ru .

"Or the person is afraid to endure a traumatic experience that he had before the current relationship. That is, before that, someone had abandoned him through treason," said Lunyushin.

In this regard, a person may be afraid to relive these negative emotions. A similar traumatic experience may arise as a result of a difficult relationship with the mother, when she abandoned and disliked the child. Among the neurotic causes of jealousy, there is also a reason for fear of losing property.

The psychologist urged us to look for the primary source of jealousy and work through it in order to build a healthy relationship with a companion.

In December, psychologist Lyubov Lysenko called self-doubt one of the reasons for jealousy. According to her, relationships built on feelings of jealousy, when one partner catches up and the other runs away to inflame feelings, are unhealthy.